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(Virtual) Coffee Chat: Summer in SF, Travels on the Horizon, and a Blog Crossroads

When I flashback to the years I posted here far more frequently, my only question is WHAT in the world did I ever talk about? Secretly, I know the answer: nonsense. Justifying Target runs, sharing awful, grainy photos of Thursday’s late-night fries, rambling on and on about midterms until I have the urge to clobber myself silly. Am I right?

But I guess in hindsight, these simple nothings slowly become the everythings. But after writing thrilling, adventure-laden posts like my Europe recaps, anything I have to say about my day-to-day now seems quite lackluster. Which is totally not the case, but hey we're friends here and I'm just tellin' it like it is.

With that in mind, I thought we could sit down, grab a cuppa and really hash it out. A life lately post. You with me?

Summer In The City


My longstanding mission has been to explore more of San Francisco, which I truly believe to be the greatest city in the world. There's something about the summer air–chilly as it might be, this is a San Francisco summer we're talking about–that propels me into this mindset of: must. experience. all the things!!

Happy to report: my friends and I have checked several things off of our SF to-see, to-taste, to-do list. Hiking Lands End (the whole time we were exclaiming, I can't believe it's taken us this long to do this!), poking our noses into lovely towns outside of the city such as downtown Burlingame, the Santa Cruz coast and the woods of Pescadero. Checking out cafes and restaurants that have long been on our radar– Alice's BBQ in Woodside, Cafe Reveille (you'll see in these photos that it made my pink-loving heart fly), Mac Daddy which is exclusively mac and cheese. I could die satisfied.

Plus with weeknight happy hours enjoyed al fresco or curling up on the couch to watch the Olympic Trials after homemade meals, it's been quite the idyllic summer which I can only see getting better–I have grand plans of afternoons sunning in the park and baseball games and trips to the beach, that is!

On The Road


After a burst of traveling in April and May (Houston + multiple trips to LA), I've been laying low and actually, welcoming visitors such as my big sister and Brina, my best friend from home. But as wonderful as it's been to have some down-time, my bags are packed and my passport's at the ready for...

Fourth of July weekend in Seattle and Vancouver with my family! I'm leaving later today and couldn't be more excited to be on the road again... and to see my darling little kitty nephews, of course! 

On the horizon is also a big two-week Europe trip in September which we've been slacking a little on planning for, but what else is new. Yes, yes, just as I've finished recapping the best of Europe, it looks like I'll be back at it again. Can anyone guess where? Hint: check the recaps ;)

Blog Crossroads

Finally, my last talking point. As of late, I've been wondering if I want to take this blog in a different direction. I love rambling about miscellaneous tidbits of my life, but I've been hardcore contemplating the various avenues Perpetually Caroline could take. For example - I could focus more on creating a travel hub for young professionals, I could share more about life in San Francisco as a millennial working in Silicon Valley, or I could keep it as a daily account of humorous tales from my day-to-day.

Hmm.

I do value your opinion, so let me know if you have one at all in regards to this. It'd be the greatest help to me, the most indecisive person in the history of EVER.

How's your summer going? Any travels? And help me, I'm decisive! What should I do about my blog?

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Lazy Adventures In Athens, Greece

If my summer in Europe were a novel, then Athens certainly was the epilogue. Cassandra and I added this ancient city on the tail end of our itinerary simply because it was fairly affordable and we thought, why the heck not. Far from action-packed, our time was spent lazily adventuring. In a state of travel fatigue, our mornings were occupied with ruins and markets, the afternoons we dawdled away in an air conditioned Starbucks, and nighttimes we stationed ourselves at a newfound favorite gyros joint.

We made a mad dash away from the ruckus of the Santorini airport, bid adieu to our time on the beautiful island, and beelined it for the ATMs in the Athens airport in the middle of a financial crisis. A stint on the subway and a short walk later, we emerged at our cozy Airbnb, where we were met with this unbelievable view:
And our gracious host, Kakao:
"Where should we go for a bite to eat?" We asked Kakao and his human, the epitome of cool It-girlness, Andromeca. She pointed us towards the end of her street at a little sidewalk fast food restaurant called Best Pitta.

With a name like that, we couldn't be more skeptical. Sure. The BEST pitta. *eyeroll*

But then.
You guys, they really, truly were actually the best gyros of all.

We tried gyros for every meal in Santorini. We made the effort to branch out and sample some of the more famous gyro places in Athens. None could compare to this tiny fast food joint on a random street corner in a nondescript Athens neighborhood.

Cassandra and I often recount our best meals in Europe. It goes a little something like this: pizza in Naples. Grilled octopus, tuna steaks, and black risotto at Restaurant Eden in Dubrovnik. Gyros at Best Pitta in Athens. In no particular order. Simply put, the gyros here were out of this world – the fluffiest pita stuffed with crispy french fries, the most fragrant of grilled chicken, and a dollop of tzatziki sauce, I'm drooling on my keyboard even thinking about it.

The next morning, we set out for a blast into the past.
Word of advice: wear good walking shoes. I had Rainbow flip flops on and it took me like forty minutes to make it safely down these slippery steps. Cassandra stood at the bottom, doubled over in laughter and was NO HELP whatsoever.
Walking around the Acropolis was a bit surreal. First of all, it was hot as heck (notice the theme of this trip?) and involved quite the trek. So at this moment in time, we were already dehydrated and delusional.

Second of all, WHAT the WHAT. Once you wrap your mind around precisely how old and historical these pillars and stones are, you're thrown for a loop.

You contemplate time, history, a whole different world.

...and then you're thisclose to suffering from heatstroke, so you start taking photos of the information plaques to read later and seek out some shade under which to catch a breath.
And play a monumental game of Jenga while you're at it.
The actual activities we committed to in Athens were 1) the Acropolis (because is that even a choice), and 2) walking.

We sauntered through the Monastiraki market, marveling over gimmicky magnets of gods and cooler relics of the present-day Athenians. 
We walked through the streets of Plaka, popping our heads into shops for a dose of air-conditioning and to check out sidewalk cafes.

We walked through Thissio, seeking more delectable bites to eat and postcards to write.

We walked many a time to Best Pitta for more gyros.
(So much so that at one point, our host Andromeca spotted us on her way home from work and exclaimed, you two are here again?! No. You need to expand your horizons.

And so that night, she fetched us and Kakao and led us through maze-like avenues to a hole-in-the-wall restaurant where the waiters spoke not a word of English. She ordered us pork knuckle and vegetables and Athenian classics and we spoke of her travels and the Greek economic crisis and we agreed that the food was amazing...

...aaaaaaand then for our next meal, Cassandra and I were right back at Best Pitta.)

My one request for Athens (I had told Cassandra that the Athens itinerary was up to her to plan because she had been so excited to visit after taking a Greek mythology class. Santorini is mine to plan, Athens is yours, I said.) was to visit the Poet Sandalmaker.
Stavros Melissinos is exactly that – partly a poet, partly a legendary sandalmaker who has handmade leather sandals for Jackie O, Sarah Jessica Parker, Sophia Loren, and anyone who is anyone. 

Cassandra and I weren't about to pass up such an opportunity, so we tucked ourselves into Melissino's shop, picked out a style each, and waited to be custom fitted for our new leather sandals. Sturdy and comfy, I highly recommend visiting if you're ever in town.
Finally, after one last European sunset, we retreated to bed, preparing ourselves to face the inevitable the next day: returning home, to a time of doubt and uncertainty, after the most wonderful summer escape.

This was the view from our bedroom–I can't explain how crazy it was to fall asleep to a lit-up Parthenon, or to be stirred awake at 5am by the rising sun and be faced with the stone pillars against a rosy sky.
Alas, all good things must come to an end, and this trip was no exception.

We waved goodbye to an Athens that was as gritty and as authentically no-frills as Santorini was pristine, flew to Frankfurt (where we thought we'd miss our flight and then I ended up being upgraded to first class HOLLA #sorrycassandra #yesIabandonedher #soooooooosorry #storyforanotherday), then to Toronto, and then to Los Angeles.
Athens hooked me. Such an unbelievable city built on an incomprehensible past, so without pretenses. I do admit that we should've given more to Greece: we should've tried to see more of it, understand more of it, given it more time and effort and energy. But truth be told, the adventures that preceded it had us exhausted and overwhelmed, and we were drained more than anything. The good news is that this begs a return trip to Athens, Santorini, and more of Greece... to give it all that it truly deserves.

Try as I might, I still don't have the words to describe just exactly what summer 2015 in Europe meant to be. I don't think I'll ever in my life be as carefree, as at peace with life and existence, as content and bewildered and anxious all at once.

It was that precious, tender time between a life so well known, so comfortable and a life so unknown and so very uncomfortably unsettling. I'll cherish this trip for the rest of my life.

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Nostalgic AF

As of late, I've been nostalgic AF.

Much of it has to do with the fact that a year ago last week, I was handed what some people call a "diploma" and what I think of as an eviction notice. For the past month, I've been marking off "this time last year" anniversaries...

The two weeks we fondly refer to as "the best two weeks of our lives," last hurrahs where throwing caution to the wind and having a grand time seemed like the only option. Exams, projects, final papers, last lectures full of sage advice from professors. Bidding farewell to a time in our lives that was at once formative and transformative. Sobbing at the New Girl season finale, wailing but everything is going to change!!! The stress of moving boxes into storage, stuffing the car until it was bursting at the seams, four years of our lives right there. Leaving for Europe before we could truly process what was happening. We existed in an exhilarating state of chaos where every moment seemed profound and every day, monumental. 
(For more Wacky Walk costume photos, check this out.)
Last weekend, I appeared at Stanford graduation once again, this time not as a graduate but as a friend and alumni. I listened to poignant speeches, watched as proud parents beamed, felt goosebumps as each graduate crossed the stage, remembered the nerves and anticipation and the bit of sadness, too. The last two weeks this year has been calm–albeit busy–days at work, spontaneous weekend getaways, making grocery lists and trip-planning while SVU plays in the background.

As I clapped for and celebrated my friends, I also felt myself emerging triumphant on the other side. See, the thing about post-grad life... is that, for me at least, it hasn't been so exciting in the same way college was. The stress doesn't spike right when midterms come around, the weekends and evenings aren't so raucous, the lessons not as hard-hitting, and the victories don't come with the cheers from a built-in audience of 60 housemates.

And yet, the days since we moved out once and for all have runneth over with workplace lessons, personal growth, routine, restlessness, spectacular weekending, epiphanies across the world, satisfaction at a meal unburnt, and constant self-questioning. 
There is no hoopla when you mark off the one-year anniversary of graduating, just a heckuva overdose of Nostalgia and quite a few existential questions. You don't get a diploma for surviving relatively unscathed, no accolade or certificate. 

But maybe we all deserve one. (And some champagne, too!)

*Photo credit of the second to last photo goes to Condeleezza Rice's security team. Sorry I took you away from constant vigilance to take ever-so-important friendship photos for us from multiple angles.

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Words I've Said While I Was "On A Diet"

... and a few that I've said when I wasn't.

As of this past Monday, my friends and I "went on a diet," novel words to our vocabulary. Summer's approaching aka knocking at our front door, I have a couple of upcoming trips (squee!), and other general BS that ultimately made this decision for us.

But you have to understand. My friends and I... aren't the types to diet. Usually, we order pizza way too often, have multiple bags of hot Cheetos stashed in the pantry, and our ONE rule is to never, never, never be out of Ben & Jerry's Chocolate Fudge Brownie. For a long time, this lifestyle was sustainable because my friends were all Division I collegiate athletes and burned more calories than they ate, and I kind of just chugged along pretending that my arteries are not being clogged AT ALL, so this reset button is long overdue. Like, two years overdue.
So, as you can imagine, this has been a pretty tough week.

We don't know how to diet. Our fridge has nary a vegetable or healthy protein because dinners tend to be ordered from the Mexican place downstairs or from whatever looks tasty on UberEats. I've seethed as nice coworkers kept on bringing in cakes and goodies from overseas travels, and I almost threw something when I realized that Hanna and I probably shouldn't go to the all-mac-and-cheese-restaurant on the second day of the diet.

Lots of hilarious / serious / desperate things have been uttered, and what kind of blogger would I be if I didn't share with you. 
When I noticed the hot Cheetos missing and told Hanna we needed to order more, and she said that she ordered us healthy snacks instead:
Screw you.

Text from Cassandra:
I forgot I'm on a diet so I had a bagel.

Text from Leah: 
I forgot I'm on a diet so I had a cookie.

Another text from Leah: 
I'm rewarding myself with Chipotle.

At lunchtime when I don't have a hamburger like I really want: 
I hate this and I'm going to be miserable until September.

When Hanna and I were trying to figure out what to eat for dinner on Monday night:
Hanna: so what about Annie's mac and cheese because it's organic.
Me: well, maybe if we share a box and put some spinach in it.
Hanna: what if we order something healthy.
Me: I'm not paying for salad.
Hanna: if we walk to the mac and cheese restaurant, it's healthy.
*looks up the menu, realizes it's impossible*
Me: okay so what if today's our cheat day?
Hanna: what if our whole weekend is a cheat weekend. 
*during this process, we finish off a bag of carrots and want to cry*
I could do this all day, but it's making me sad and hungry, so let's reflect on happier times.

Back in May, I went to LA and spent the day at Harry Potter World as a birthday present to myself (more to come on that next week), and Cassandra, Joan, and Kelly kindly accompanied me. After a long and exhausting day of fighting Voldemort and playing Quidditch, Cassandra took us to a restaurant she's been talking about for ages: Catcher In The Rye.

A moody vibe, amazing drinks menu with cocktails that go by names like 'Huckleberry Finn,' 'The Secret Garden,' 'Tequila Mockingbird,' and the most devastatingly glorious grilled cheese sandwiches and tomato soup, wonderful appetizers to share like brussels sprouts (their favorite!), and a hummus (my favorite!!) that converted Kelly, our resident hummus hater, plus stacks and stacks of board games, the only words we were able to say were:

unghahsjjhfheeeeeeeee. Heaven.
TAKE ME BACK TO THAT.

PLEASE.
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