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Currently :: December

To get all technical on you, if we're talkin' currently CURRENTLY, then I am under three layers of blankets, a fleece pullover, sweatpants, earmuffs, fuzzy gloves, and toasty socks in bed in Nanjing, China. It's right at 35 degrees, the heater is malfunctioning, and so... hello from my igloo.

This comes right after just about a full 24 hours of traveling, complete with a less than satisfying  in flight movie selection – don't you hate that? That came after over a week in Houston, where every day was 80 degrees, with 80% humidity.

Fret not, I will survive. A look back at December (!!!!!!), when I've been...

DREAMING // of a warmer tomorrow.

WATCHING // a lot of movies! What with all the flights this month, compulsory holiday movie marathons, all of my fall TV shows on hiatus, and a Starz trial subscription, it's been all about the big screen in December.
EATING // basically not at home. Indulgent breakfasts around San Francisco, a whole day of eating in LA, mom's cooking in Houston, and now meal after meal in Nanjing, I'm actually now craving a simple cheese quesadilla conjured up in my microwave.

MISSING // a functional Internet! China has what's "affectionately" referred to as the Great Firewall, and they've recently been majorly cracking down on sites that have slipped through the cracks. I'm without... Google, everything associated with Google (Docs, Blogger (!!!!), Drive, Gmail), Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat, Instagram, and just about every other site or platform that I use on a daily basis. But how am I blogging right now? Well that's a secret that I'll never tell. XOXO, just kidding, thank GOODNESS for Express VPN.

WANTING // to have an excellent last day of 2015. And I want it for all of you, too.  

PLANNING // 2016 adventures and intentions.

READING // Goodbye Sarajevo, and it gives me the chills after having visited Sarajevo myself this summer. I still need to tell you about that (broken record, I'm aware). Also, I'm hoping to begin re-reading the entire Harry Potter series. This'll be cycle number... 16 or something of that nature.
TALKING // about the good old days, and all the people from way back when. A few hours before my flight to China, I managed to meet up with my best friend from home who I only get to see once or twice a year. We did our traditional brunch + Barnes & Noble date, ran into another high school friend, and caught each other up on the goings on of our mutual friends. Crazy to think how far we've come.

SPENDING // it's December, did you think I was a saint in this arena? I most definitely was not. 

FEELING // a twinge of sadness that 2015 is coming to an end. What. A. Year.

WEARING // my Harry Potter sweatshirt everyyyyywhere (thank you, Lo!) but also twenty layers at the moment. 
ENJOYING // being in the presence of my extended family. They are a loud, all-over-the-place bunch, but they are the most loving people in the world and I'm lucky to be a part of this crew. 

DRINKING // coffee, as per usual. Lots of water, too. 

NEEDING // to get some work-work done, but I'm crashing as we speak. I'm surprised I haven't fallen asleep on top of my laptop.

LISTENING // Serial, season 2. What are your thoughts?!

LOOKING [FORWARD TO] // 2016, 2016, 2016. Blank slates are exciting, don't you think? 

Well, friends, my wish for you is a safe and wonderful New Year's Eve, and as amazing an entrance into 2016 as you can manage. I'll see you here next year!

What was your favorite moment in December?

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Merry Christmas & Happy Holidays!

What are you up to on the merriest day of the year? How was your loot? And most importantly, what're you going for first at the dinner table?

As for me, I'm a goner in the face of the irresistible pull of my bed at my parents'. No matter how many times I claim I'll be "productive" and "helpful," it still manages to coax me right back under the covers, book in one hand and coffee in the other.

In other festive news, it is currently 82 degrees with 81% humidity here in Houston, so I'll be melting away as I continue to refuse to take off my long-sleeved Santa pajamas.

Merry everything, happy holidays, and happy weekending to you, my loves!
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It's A Wonderful Life, Thanks For The Wings

Can anyone argue that the best part of work-from-home days [other than the fact that such an option exists at all] is that here and there, you can take an elongated coffee break?

Yesterday, for example, I spent all morning sorting through work emails so that once afternoon came along, I could take a field trip with my roommate Susan to the old-fashioned Castro Theater to see It's A Wonderful Life (with a detour for hot cocoa, did you even assume otherwise). Let me tell ya, if there's an older movie you've been meaning to watch, but keep on neglecting because corny 14%-on-Rotten-Tomatoes Netflix rom com's are so much more tempting (guilty)... find yourself an old fashioned theater and fix that problem right up for yourself.

It was wonderful. I loved it. I teared up spectacularly, especially at that final scene. But you all know that, I'm sure, because you are lightyears ahead of me on this front, I just know it. 
Oh, but that "Remember no man is a failure who has friends" SPOILER ALERT: ...

"thanks for the wings..." REALLY brought on the waterworks.

Because this year had its toughies, that's for sure. For months, I saw my best friends come home every day, in tears. I saw them make one of the hardest decisions of their lives. But I also saw them emerge, stronger and more admirable than ever. I saw them stand their ground, saw the very, very best qualities of their characters. And after all those tears? Well, we drowned sorrows with dinners together every night and a fair bit of tequila too.
Alas, there were other medicines quite bitter to swallow. Graduating without a job lined up because I wanted to hold out for one that I found to be meaningful. Crashing on friends' couches for a month because well, see above. Apartment searching in the most hopeless of cities for apartment searches. But I was lucky. I had couches on which to crash, I had people to karaoke with at 1am and people to grab bagels with the next day. Those little moments were the ones that affirmed my decision to stay in SF. It gave me the comfort blanket that I never knew I needed. I had friends who I could call at 3pm on a Wednesday with whom I could commiserate. They have gotten more than one distraught phone call from me about how I haven't gotten out of bed all day and hey, I think I might be depressed. And they'd be kind and encouraging and all, let's pick out an outfit for next week's interview!

My tribe hugged me tight and climbed into bed with me when I heard that my grandpa died, and stole me away for midday coffees. They remained sympathetic when they received the eightieth text update that MY TRAIN IS AN HOUR LATE TO MY FIRST DAY OF WORK. They called to make sure I didn't miss my alarm. Not only did they not get mad when I asked them to leave work early and drop my favorite sweater off on their way to the airport, but they insisted it'd be a good time to get pho as well [okay this happened ONE TIME, LEAH I APOLOGIZE].  
There were happier times too. All of those dinners together every night senior year (enchilada night in particular was sacred) are memories I'll hold precious till the end. The nights we went out dancing, and those we stayed in to watch TV [like... 360 days out of 365]. 

(Lauren! Look away!) (Cassandra, you too!) 

Sending each other the same Christmas presents. Guess we've gotten predictable. Decorating stockings. Making brunch together – okay as you can see, they made brunch... and I... snuck bits of bacon. They never did trust me with a stove. Fancifying ourselves, ever so rarely. The gronsie (gray sweatshirt + gray sweatpants) days. New jobs! Law school! Medical school. Shiny, money-makin' CS master's degrees. New relationships! Getting lucky with a wonderful apartment! Together! Plus new, fun roommates on top of that! Traveling the world. Continuing to learn. Weddings! Piling onto one bed together, all the time. 

2015 was a transitional year, which makes it a tumultuous one. Good tumultuous, for the most part. Bittersweet tumultuous, most definitely. But you know, when we threw our caps in the air that morning in June and said goodbye to the lives that we were used to – or let's say we did because for some reason, that gesture was forgotten this year! – we said hello to a whole newwwwww wooooorld, with some ride or dies who were doing the exact same thing. And that's everything.

Thank you for giving me wings this year. 

Love, Clarence 
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Coffee Chat :: Busy nothings & Christmas plans

Oh gosh, y'all.

Here we are. Christmas week!

I think the last time I sat down with you guys and caught up over coffee was sometime in April, which quite frankly, is unacceptable. So take a seat, grab a cuppa, and let's chat.

This weekend, I was asleep more hours than I was awake, had zero alarms set, watched Elf, The Holiday, and Mansfield Park, fueled up on multiple mugs of hot cocoa, feasted on my favorite takeout breakfast, and snuggled up with a dog as the rain pittered and pattered against our skylights. That's about it. And I'll tell you what: these busy (not-so-busy, actually) nothings had me positively giddy.

What with getting up to no good in San Francisco with friends last week, and the two weekends before that in LA and Seattle, a flight to Houston in a couple of days, and then a trip to China for the new year, I cherished this weekend o' nothingness like you wouldn't believe.
Christmas is going to be a lowkey one for my family this year. My sister's off on her honeymoon in Thailand and Bali, and so I'll be settling in at my parents' with a couple of books, my mama's cookin', and a list of to-do's that have long been on the backburner that I'd like to check off. Things like, a blog refresh, figuring out budgeting (wtf???), and a couple of work tasks too. Oh, and! Finally finishing up my Europe recaps. I've left off at Plitvice Lakes, Croatia but still have lots of good stuff to share with you: Dubrovnik, Bosnia & Herzegovina, Greece. 

You see, these are likely the most meaningful chapters from this summer's travels, but I couldn't quite figure out the right way to properly share them with you. And then the more that time went by, the harder it became to remember the details, and that's become a whole new challenge altogether. But it's gonna happen, my friends!

Now tell me... How have you been? What are your holiday plans? Do you have resolutions written up yet?
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Santa Clauses Are Coming To Town :: San Francisco Santa Con 2015

Some days, I forget how head-over-heels I am for San Francisco. Ahem, those days I have to hand over my rent checks. Remind me... am I paying to live in ONE TINY room or am I purchasing a frickin castle, moat and butler included?!

Calming breaths.

I suppose with the ridiculous (seriously I could have a sizeable house in Utah at this rate, and there I go again) price tag comes that little bonus detail of getting to reside in beautiful San Francisco. The perpetually perfect weather, the gorgeous scenery, the best restaurants in the world, the friendliest and smartest people on this planet, and the wackiest of wacky traditions ever.

Obviously there's Bay to Breakers (see what a hoot that was) in the summer. But in the winter? We have Santa Con. I am aware Santa Con is a multi-city ordeal, but let me pretend that SF is the most committed to the game. The most gung ho-ho-ho of them all. Otherwise, I'll weep twice as hard when rent day comes around again.
The crew.

On Santa Con Day, everyone dresses up in their North Pole finest and congregates at Union Square at noon to 1) grab the best Instagram shot of a sea of Santas and 2) sneak a peek at the towering Christmas tree.

Slowly, San Francisco Santas begin to disperse. 
We meandered over to the edge of North Beach, slipping into the first bar that was Santa friendly. A great choice it turned out to be, as we were showered with pretzels and freshly popped popcorn galore. A Christmas miracle, indeed.

Soon, we were joined by all kinds of Santa's helpers – elves, fairies, reindeers, and... Hugh Hefners, it seems?!
If that doesn't scream "overwhelmed," I don't know what does.
Onward!

Down the street was the Last Drop Tavern, where more friends and libations appeared out of nowhere. And fellow Santas too, of course. 
Sensing a bit of antsy-ness to move along, we did just that. Corralled the group, and with Buddy the Elf's sister as our beacon we made the long trek over to Polk St. whereupon the majority of Santas had descended. I have a hysterical video of a Buddy [Cassandra] and a Santa [Hanna] singing a resounding rendition of Wicked's "What Is This Feeling" on this long walk that I'll have to share one day. The wide streets were unnavigable, crowded as they were. Weaving in and out of red and green and brown and gold, we darted into the first establishment with no wait.

For a good couple of hours, we sipped on mango mojitos and sangria as we chatted up fellow San Franciscans and reminisced on good times passed. SF during a wacky event is my favorite because like I said before, everyone is all in. The city transforms into one big group of friends. No one is a stranger. High fives, hugs, and a shared love of the Warriors brought to a whole 'nother level.

But then we got hungry.

Cassandra, Leah, and I decided to split from the group and traverse to the closest In-N-Out, which is dead in the center of tourist central Fisherman's Wharf... and a forty minute walk away. So of course, we first made a stop to pick up sizzling hot old-fashioned chocolate donuts, fresh from the deep frier.

Plus someone picked up some frozen yogurt from Loving Cup, and started eating by her sad lonesome sELF.
Until a friend came along to cheer her up! 
We found the most gasp-worthy homes decked out in holiday decorations. 
And borderline trespassed, just to get a good jumping photo.

Erhm. 
Oh, there we go. 
Aaaaaaand, 
we're done.

A little optical illusion for you on this fine Wednesday.

Which legs belongs to which troublemaker?
After that series of shenanigans, we focused once again on making it to our cheeseburgers.

But not before a quick jaunt at the beach, 
and an obligatory nod to the Golden Gate Bridge, though she was hiding in the mist. It was a "thank you for letting me share this city with you" kind of gesture, y'know.
Finally, we made it to In-N-Out and after absolutely annihilating our burgers and fries, we decided to walk home via North Beach and Chinatown (with a pitstop for boba) and a little bit of SoMa, stealing glances at the twinkling Bay Bridge along the way.

I love this city.

I love it in the freezing summers, I love it during the warm holidays. I love it for its nerdy tech lingo, I love it for the crazy characters you come across on the Muni, I love it for its vicinity to wine country, I love it for everything Bay Area has to offer. I love it for the fact that it's what many of us refer to as Neverland – no one ever grows up here, y'all. I love it for Polk St partying (... a little bit), I love it for charming Hayes Valley and Cow Hollow, and I love it for Japantown and Chinatown and Inner/Outer Richmond and the Dogpatch and everything in between. I love it for the Giants and the Warriors and the 49ers too I guess. I love it despite its stupidly high prices.

It's worth it, it's worth it, it's worth it.

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Los Angeles: Old and New Favorites You Have to Visit

Hopped off the plane at LAX with my dreams (of nonstop food) and a cardigan (because the weather hovering in the high 70s, lower 80s all weekend SO required it) – and was met by the best welcoming committee in town.

LA seems to be the destination for all the times I've gotten restless in one place and wanted a breath of spontaneity. See: finals week last year. I was going to list all the other times I ran away from my problems straight to LA, but that got pretty cumbersome pretty quick, so just trust me. It's been often.

That's sort of what happened here. A few weeks ago, the thought of working day in and day out with only weekends free caught me unaware and threw me right into a questioning-my-entire-existence fit of panic. Before I even realized, my wallet was out, my credit card was entered, and a flight to LA (uh, not even a week after my trip to Seattle... oops, didn't think about that one DID I) was booked. For those of you who don't know, Cassandra - my best friend and a familiar face here - is now residing / working there, so of course I wanted her to reassure me that even in the real world, there's still plenty of time for exploring. She did this by taking me back to some of our old haunts as well as checking out new (to us) ones in LA that had my adventurer's spirit all good and happy again.

Sorry, sorry for going off on that tangent. Whew! Let's get to it fo real now.
Cassandra and Kelly picked me up from the airport and asked what I wanted to do first.

"COFFEE. I NEED IT IN MY SYSTEM. NOW." I said, not very nicely I'm afraid. To be fair, I was up at 4:40 in the morning for my flight. I was out the door right as a roommate was coming back from her night out. Faced with a mission, they nodded grimly and put pedal to the metal, straight to Alfred's Coffee, which I've been dying to visit thanks to all the "But first, coffee" 'grams I've seen.

Have you met Kelly yet?
Of course not, because even I hadn't met Kelly until this weekend. I've heard about her and Snapped her and texted her for four years now. One of Cassandra's closest friends from childhood and a fellow Potterhead of mine, it's a meeting that's long been delayed. [She has a lightning bolt tattoo and for that, I'll forever bow down to her. YAS QUEEN.]

Perhaps we should've eased her in to the blogging ways, because that above was her reaction to our fiftieth photo of her coffee. Can I please.... just... have the caffeine, she cried.
A long-winded catch up sesh and a run-in with who we now affectionately refer to as fAdele (for fake Adele), a woman who looked, acted, and SOUNDED exactly like Adele later, we were off to our next stop.

Have I ever told you about one of the only sore spots in my friendship with Cassandra? The one thing I possibly will never ever ever forgive her for?

She's met Tom Felton, hands down my favorite Harry Potter actor. She opened the door for him here at Sycamore Kitchen a year ago, he said "cheers, love" to her, and she was too scared to tell me for hours. Since then, Sycamore Kitchen is a must-stop for me every time I'm in LA just in case I get to see that Malfoy mug myself some day.

Um, and also they have incredible food. Don't miss out on the dark ale spiced gingerbread. 
A brief breather at The Grove to check out holiday decorations and to grab some lipstick. Cassandra and I picked one out and stood there for twenty minutes, justifying this purchase to each other (we graduated, didn't we? We got jobs, didn't we? We haven't seen each other in two weeks, right? We deserve this lipstick, dangit!) and Kelly looked on in bewilderment.

"Everything I've heard about the two of you is true."  
Then! Downtown for Shareen's vintage store. A warehouse that would make Pinterest proud, with its lanterns and carpets and vignettes of fluffy beds and gold mirrors. Beautiful, vintage dresses everywhere. You walk around, pick out a few to your liking, and settle into an open corner where you play dress-up in front of everyone while the lovely girls there bring hangers upon hangers of dresses they think would look on you.

Seriously, it was playing dress up and also, Cassandra looks like a model even in a ridiculous get up from the 70s and maybe that's another flaw in our friendship.
Another timeout, this time at trendy Urth Caffe downtown for more coffee to cure the afternoon slump and a (ridiculously good) chicken quesadilla to share because SOMEHOW we were still ravenous.
Plus a looksie into the Arts District Co-Op, the coolest shared space for local small businesses to sell clothes, jewelry, candles, decor, and more. I was obsessed. Everything's unique, gorgeous, and so affordable. What's not to love?
Not too long after, we raced time and the setting sun to make it up to Perch LA, a rooftop bar Cassandra, other friends, and the blogosphere alike have been raving about. You guys, it's amazing. Please visit at some point in your life.

Nestled in the center of downtown LA, you're surrounded by skyscrapers and the rich and the famous (well, plus tourists too) every which way you turn. The drinks are delicious, though pricey, and have fun names like Lolita and Writer's Block and My Fair Lady. We hovered until some lounge chairs opened up. They lit a fire by our feet, barricaded us off with red rope as somehow we fooled people into thinking we're VIP (not really), the hum and buzz of conversations continued on around us, and we took it all in.
Dinner reservations were at Baco Mercat, which now has a place on my Must Stops in LA list that it won't lose anytime soon. Great (though again, still pricey!) drinks, and an amazing, totally drool-worthy menu.

The Sweet Piggy – a gruyere, bacon, and autumn squash flatbread – to start us off.
Ricotta ravioli with pork belly sugo, kale, and pine nuts. Ridiculous. 
And the piece de resistance: The Slayer.

Mostly ordered because of its name (huge Buffy fans, this trio is...) but uh, would you look at this.
Baked baco with fried egg, pork belly, and salmorejo. Needless to say, we slayed it.

And of course, with the best company.
Our final stop was Clifton's Cafeteria, a cafeteria-style restaurant but also a multi-story bar, for a friend's birthday. Quite the place, you guys. It reminded me of a British pub meets an old professor's library meets a natural history museum meets the whimsical parts of Harry Potter (there was a towering tree in there that wasn't unlike the Whomping Willow). 

The best time with the best gals.

And then, it was to bed.

Where should I go the next time I go to LA for stress relief?!
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